When do you know is the right time to just give up on certain friendships? That's the question I've been asking myself for quite awhile now. I'm the type of person that if I have a great friendship I will hold onto it for dear life, but in the end I also feel like I'm the only one that's trying to save that friendship and I end up losing. Growing up I always thought that when I was friends with someone that we'd be friends forever, you would think that after all these years I would learn that not all friendships last forever. I'm so thankful that some of my past friendships didn't last, I feel like it's kind of like an ex, once you break up with that person you ask yourself  "What in the world was I thinking and why did I hold on for so long?" I know that I have some friends that no matter how long we go without seeing or talking to each other we will always pick up where we left off when we do actually see each other again. I know since we've moved things have changed drastically and I haven't stayed in contact with some of the people that I thought I would but then people that I thought would continue to be there for me seem to be slipping away. And honestly, it kills me to even think about that. There are some days when I wish we could just go back to the way things were before we moved. But then again, I know I wouldn't be where I am in my life if we had never moved, maybe things would have been easier if I could have just moved all my friends with me ;) I do have to say that I have made some great friends since we moved here and I'm so thankful for that but like I said, sometimes I wish things would be the way they used to be. I think I just need to accept the fact that I can't change the way things are between my friends, I just need to learn to deal with it and move on.